Self Destruct

Have you ever had a friend just seem to self destruct?  Maybe you kinda sorta had a feeling something was up and made yourself available while feeling incredibly inadequte as this is no ordinary person.  This friend is the center so many others depend on, look to and seem to naturally gravitate around.   

The slippery slope of self destruct is steep, leaving casualities shocked and shaken.  Equally and particularly hideous to witness are the ferrett faced, self proclaimed, wise counsel,  spinning tales of woe from a grain of truth mixed and multiplied in imagination poisoned with envy and anger.  Gossip so harsh, toxic karma takes its toll as the casuality list increases.  

It occurs to me in this time of 'selfies',  emphases on importance of self esteem, and general attitude of 'Me, myself & I'deserve 'whatever it is I think I want',  the reality is that self gratifacation is fleeting.  WORD!   

So it goes and now you know. 

Life is fragile and so very precious. kisses