“And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world
around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely
places. Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it.” – Roald Dahl
I think this is the secular way of saying have faith. My Dad was a preacher. He studied it in college and his whole
life long. He spoke it, believed
it and lived it. I have never met
another pastor like him. My Dad
held a full time job for the government with benefits and regular paycheck
mostly because he was just a very responsible man and wanted to make sure his
family was provided for but his heart was preaching and serving God. Taking care of his family, friends,
neighbors anyone that needed a helping hand seemed to be how Dad lived each
day. We were always active church
members in the denomination he was ordained in. I guess it was about the time I got into junior high a small
country church, in a town about 50 miles away, he had helped to establish as a
young seminary student, asked him to return. The original pastor was ready to retire. The congregation was small so
attracting a full time pastor was probably not gonna happen. They needed someone to care about them,
preach on Sunday, visit the homebound, hold a hand and pray before surgery,
funerals, weddings, a shoulder to lean on, someone with encouraging words and
wise counsel all for pretty much gas money and maybe a little extra when they
could manage it. My Dad was ecstatic. Convincing my Mom was another
thing. She never liked sharing my
Dad’s time. I was not ever quite
sure what she thought being a pastor’s wife was all about but I guess that was
between them. I just know for the
next 6 years or so I went with my Dad every Sunday to the little country church
while my Mom continued to go, taking my little brother and sister with her, to
the local church we used to attend as a family. My Dad saw ‘magic’ and happiness in everything. If it bothered him that Mom divided our
family on Sundays, I never heard him verbalize it. I just know he and I had the best times ever. I loved those people and they sure did
love my Dad. He had the kind of
faith that could move mountains. I
hope I will always have his glittering eyes. kisses
Memories of the 1960's. Drinking from the garden hose, Playing outside till it was time for supper or it got dark-whichever came first. Box fans, heat rash, Church on Sunday and one family black & white television with 3 channels. Time passes and times sure have changed. Welcome to my world. Stories about growing up in Texas. New adventures and the struggle to remain relevant in the lives of my adult children.
Sunday, December 30, 2012
Wednesday, December 26, 2012
I feel fine
Good Morning, Good Morning. It is the day after the end of the world. “It’s the end of the world as we know
it and I feel fine”, as made famous by Skeeter Davis in the hippie 60’s &
later REM in the hair band 80’s, keeps ringing in my head. Holy Cow, more has
happened to me in the last 2 years than in my whole life put together. So if the world had really ended like
the Mayan calendar, well, I suppose that would have been okay; not really, but
I guess no choice. I have kinda
pondered how the leap to the end of the world happened anyway. Just because the Mayan’s stopped
counting or ran out of room or time to calculate or whatever; why is it
supposed that it means the end of the world? I just feel that thinking is quite a leap or huge drawing of
conclusions. I have heard there
are whole documentaries on the subject explaining somewhat plausible scenarios
to the end of the world as it relates to the Mayan calendar. So I guess I will repeat a part of the
song… ‘I feel fine’. I hope you
feel fine too and have a very Merry weekend. kisses
Granny's Christmas
My Granny loved making Christmas special for her
grandchildren. Each year from the time
we were tall enough to stand on a chair in the kitchen Granny would show me,
and my little sister how to make sugar cookie dough from scratch. Granny’s kitchen utensils were each a
story in themselves and I will save that for another day. I loved rolling out the dough on wax
paper. I thought wax paper was
just the most amazing invention. Using just the right amount of flour so the
dough would not stick to her special wooden rolling pin, the one with the
spinning handles, the aluminum cookie cutters wrapped in Christmas red tissue
paper, were taken from the place in the kitchen drawer where they hibernated
all the other days of the year. Let’s see, there was a Christmas tree, a
reindeer in flight, a star, and a Santa Clause face. My Granny was an accomplished colored icing maker. She took those little bottles of food
coloring and made a flesh tone for Santa’s face, different colored ornaments
that stood out on the deep green of the Christmas trees and a nice brown fur
color for the reindeer in flight with a bright red color spot for the
nose. The icing was of course made
from scratch with powered sugar and always the perfect consistency. I have
never in my adult life been able to stir up Granny’s home made icing and have
it come out just like hers. My sister and I thought those were the best
Christmas cookies in the wide world and Granny made us feel like she could not
do it without us. Adorning Granny
& PawPaw’s house with treasured traditional decorations was just the
greatest fun. Our favorite was a
golden colored bell with a string to pull for it to play a medley of Christmas
carols. Granny would have Paw Paw
tie it to the chandelier that hung in the center of their living room. We would take turns having PawPaw lift
us up to pull the string. My
Mother still has this bell but the string has long since broken and so my kids
do not get to hear the music but I still can. kisses
Thursday, December 13, 2012
'the holidays'
It is a beautiful sunshine breezy November Tuesday after Thanksgiving day. So now it’s ‘the holidays’. Never have I looked it up in the dictionary but this seems to be how we refer to those days from Thanksgiving, Christmas Day in the middle to the New Year’s Day finale. The news channels over the weekend were busy with stories of shoppers gone wild. Retailers in an attempt to boost end of year sales drop prices on select apparently desirable products inspiring working class consumers to pitch tents to ensure taking home what would otherwise be unaffordable. There is nothing I can think of offhand that I want that bad. I guess for those in the lines the payoff is worth it and I guess you have to admire their determination. Gotta get those Christmas cards started. I am making a list and checking it twice. Have a super duper holiday week. kisses
Eve's
I love December. I think December is the most amazing month of the year after all it has the two most wonderful, amazing Eve’s, Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve. I always thought the best part of Christmas is the Eve. My childhood is filled with memories of Christmas lights, presents under the Christmas tree, and going to bed to dream of how Santa would find a way into our home without a chimney. Christmas Day everything would be a mess of wrapping paper and a mad rush to get to relatives house for Christmas Dinner. Gathering with those you see once a year I suppose is a good thing but I always found it uncomfortable. Christmas Eve is like the calm before the storm. The last time to enjoy the tree and decorations before the Christmas morning chaos. New Year’s Eve is a night I start thinking of months in advance. Sure will not be the same this year without Dick Clark. I still want to spend a New Year’s Eve in New York so I can see the ball drop in person. Whatever plans I cannot phantom sleeping thru that magical moment when one year ends and the next begins. I hope your Eve’s are simply wonderful this year. It is a beautiful December day and I getting outside. kisses
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