I think some of that relationship advice I have been reading is starting to sink in. I really do not like emotional turmoil any more than confrontation and drama in my life is just about unheard of. That is till recently. I am learning. I can be taught!! I was just telling one of my girlfriends 'you take care of you'. I say that to my girlfriends a lot cause women tend to take care of everyone except themselves. There in is where so much of my downfall lies, or at least according to 'Why Men Love Bitches'. I think for me it is a way to keep control of my world. I crave stability and that being so I tend to keep relationships very casual. I do not move in with men and I do not allow them to live with me. Who does that benefit anyway? The man of course and if he leaves what is left behind? Possibly bills, if I were living with him then it might mean I was suddenly homeless not to mention the sense of loss and loneliness. It is just to easy for a man to up and ditch a woman that he is not married to with little to no consequences to him. I kind of make a joke of saying 'no I love you's' but I really think most looking for love singles out there throw that word much to easy. It is starting to dawn on me that all those commitment phobe men I hear women complain about have nothing over on me. That being said, I still find myself doing too much. Well, no more of that. I have really been sorting out what it is and what kind of relationship I want. I am learning to say no, take care of me and it is my world. Maybe get a plaque of that cause I think a tattoo would be a little over kill, ya think?
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